April 17, 2013

Modern Manners: Tech Etiquette (Part 1)

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Bonjour dear readers! I'd like to begin today's post in classic MBB fashion, by telling you a story, a little novella if you will.

Once upon a time, I had the delight of overseeing the intern program at the PR firm where I worked. As I  interviewed a potential candidate and  waxed poetic about the fabulous life of a public relations professional, I couldn't help but notice that my  darling pupil had whipped out his cell phone and began furiously texting. Needless to say, my green eyes grew to the size of Limoges porcelain saucers! Tsk-Tsk! Then I had an epiphany: perhaps cell phones, computers, and social media demand a new playbook of contemporary etiquette to guide us through today's tech-saturated world. From texting to Twitter, technology presents us with countless scenarios where modern manners come into play. And so, inspired by this young gentleman, I give you part one of tech etiquette. Enjoy!


CELLS & TEXTING 
  • Strive to switch your cell phone to silent and put it away in social situations and places including but not limited to: movies, meetings, church, weddings, parties, meals, libraries, interviews, business gatherings, etc. Otherwise, by using your cell phone in these situations, it sends the message that this little device holds more significance than the company you keep. In the event you're expecting an important, life-altering call (e.g., your cousin's bundle of joy is about to greet the world!), discreetly check your phone, and politely excuse yourself if you need to make or take a call. 
  • Please don't text and drive, ever - it's just not worth it and you run the risk of seriously hurting yourself or someone else. 
  • If someone calls you, aim to call them back instead of texting them back. 
  • Need to discuss a personal matter via your cell phone? Wait until you are in the comfort of your car, home, or space where you can have some privacy. 
  • Exercise common courtesy in elevators by staying off of your cell phone. Your fellow riders will be oh so appreciative! 
  • Channel your soft inside voice when talking on your cell phone in public. 
  • It can be tricky to convey emotion via a text, so if you need to communicate something significant, call that person to share your news. They will be thrilled to hear your lovely voice! 
  • No matter how enticing, don't text anything private or confidential (text or pictures). Once you press send, it's off and you can't take it back. There's many a Lifetime movie about this topic! 

Stay tuned for part two! 

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